I am trying to learn and stop enabling behaviors
I HAVE A 23 YEAR OLD SON, WHO IS AN ALCOHOLIC/ADDICT. THE FAMILY IS IN AN UPROAR REGARDING THIS. WANT HIM TO GET HELP, BUT EXCUSES SEEM REAL AND VERY SLIPPERY. WANT TO KNOW HOW TO STOP ENABLING HIM, AND WHAT I AM DOING THAT IS ENABLING.