Son-in-law has returned from 2 weeks in jail. He will face a prison term for burglary in the future. He admits he is addicted to prescription pain pills and went to his first Celebrate Recovery meeting last night, and my daughter went to her first codependent meeting at the same place. He is not living in the home since his arrest (2 children ages 3 yrs and 8 months)per my daughter's request. She says he needs to get sober and she needs to stop the codependency before he comes home.
What do I do to stop my enabling? I have helped with money in the past, let them use my car, etc. My daughter is the consistent provider (she is a LCSW).