Boyfriend allowing brother to stay with him rent-free
I'm in a weird situtation here.....my boyfreind bought a house a few months back (June) and his brother moved in with him. His brother has not paid rent or bills since he has moved in. My boyfriend asks him every month for the rent, but his brother says he'll pay and never does. It bothers me because I feel like his brother is taking advantage of him, but on the other hand my boyfriend is letting his brother get away with not paying. I have plans to move in with him next month, but not sure not if I should. It bothers me that I will be moving in and paying rent and utility bills when his brother has to pay nothing. Please don't misunderstand me, I don't mind paying bills, and I am going to regardless, but if I'm paying rent I feel his brother should be as well. I don't know how to bring this up without sounding like I"m pestering him, but it just really bothers me that he allows this and doesn't put his foot down. Am I making a mistake by moving in?