23 year old son and mom

by Please anonomous
(New Jersey)

My son could get partial unemployment, but he says he would have to go through too much to apply. I carry all the bills and he doesn't pay towards anything. He doesn't seem to mind at all not helping out financially. When I tell him that it bothers me that he could get money for nothing (I work full time) he says things like "I'm sorry I'm so worthless and such a disappointment - I should just kill myself"

I am an enabler - but I am also stuck. What should I do?

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