This is pointless!

by Char
(canada)

What is the point of expressing oneself when there are no replies to our posts or any sort of help at all?

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Oct 05, 2012
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Missing the point
by: Kara

Char I think you have missed the point.
The site seems to me to give you an understanding not the answer to solve your problems, that takes one to one couselling.

It appears from the forum many respondants have finally felt able to acknowledge and recognise the issues they have suffered. They are not counsellors but people still carrying their burden of Shame and sadness, so please dont expect so much from them.

I found the site has brought me great clarity but I would not expect the author to counsel everyone for free and they certainly cant be expected to be available 24/7 for everyone around the world.

I hope you have now found the courage to reach out for the help you need to a source close to home,
xx

Jan 21, 2012
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Sorry for your pain
by: Don Carter

Hello Char,

I get these posts once in a while and I always feel terribly sorry that I was not able to respond to someone's pressing need. I want to apologize to you and anyone else who feels the same.

I don't always know what to do to make myself as available as I would like...especially on a forum we are dealing with abandonment issues!

At time like this, I just put a reminder out there that when moderating a forum it is unrealistic for one person to expect to do it alone...especially when there are so many other commitments to fill. So, sadly, I cannot promise that it won't happen again.

All I can do is the best I can do...which is not always good enough.

I also want to thank some of the more experienced visitors here for jumping in and responding to the needs of others. It is the only way a Forum can keep going and I hope we do that!

Please accept my sincere apology and I hope you stay around here and keep expressing yourself.

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