Thawing Childhood Abandonment Issues

By Don Carter, MSW, LCSW

Thawing Childhood Abandonment Issues is an "Inner Child" focused, step-by-step approach for grieving abandonment issues and healing the unfinished business of childhood. Since the wounds of unmet childhood needs are emotional in nature, recovery from these wounds needs a healing process emotional in nature. But we are meaning makers and information processors who need to know why and how we are the way we are.

That's why Thawing Childhood Abandonment Issues is designed with an insight-oriented (cognitive) component as well as an experiential (emotional) component. The program integrates an interactive workbook with over 70 Audio programs that are designed to help release blocked emotions and resolve childhood grief & loss issues.




As Rod Stewart said back in the 1970's, "the first cut is the deepest". Since Thawing Childhood Abandonment Issues focuses on those "first and deepest cuts", it is a program that will take perhaps six months to work through completely. It puts a strong focus on experiencing and releasing the emotions of the past and relies heavily on its many audio programs to facilitate the emotional component to that healing process.

During the wounding process... the pain that accumulated during the first stage of development was carried forward as a foundation for the work of the second stage... then the combined pain from the first and second stages are carried forward as a foundation for the experience of the third stage, etc. Similarly, the healing that accumulates as you work through the first stage is carried forward as a foundation for healing the second stage... then the combined healing from the first and second stages are carried forward as a foundation for healing the third stage, etc.

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All Books in the Series Include the Iceberg Model (the first 5 Chapters)

  • Chapter 1: "What the hell is wrong with you?" (p.4) Motivation, Dependency Needs, Iceberg Model
  • Chapter 2: Anatomy of an Emotional Wound (p.16) Abandonment, Shame, & Contempt - False Self
  • Chapter 3: The Art of Survival (p.28) External Focus, Impression Management - Invented Self
  • Chapter 4: Who am I Really? (p.36) Imperfect World & Spirituality - True Self
  • Chapter 5: Distractions & Dependencies (p.40) Addictions, Obsessions/Compulsions, and Other Issues

  • Workbook Introduction - An Overview of the Entire Healing Process Notice how the work in each stage follows the same ten procedures. The process is the same from one developmental stage to the next, but the content is different because the developmental themes, tasks, and issues of each stage are different.
  • From Stage One: Basic Trust vs. Mistrust Description (p.49) Example of the First Procedure in Each Stage
  • From Stage Two: Stage Two Self-Assessment (p.69) Example of the Second Procedure in Each Stage

  • From Stage Three: Diagram of Possible Outcomes for Stage Three (p.91) Example of the Third Procedure in Each Stage
  • From Stage Four: Detecting Your Inner Critic (p.113) Example of the Fourth Procedure in Each Stage
  • From Stage Five: Stage Five Issues & Symptoms (p.138) Example of the Fifth Procedure in Each Stage
  • From Stage Six: Communication & Daily Dialogue (p.162) Example of the Sixth Procedure in Each Stage
  • From Stage Two: Developing a Protector (p.82) Example of the Seventh Procedure in Each Stage
  • From Stage One: Grieving your Losses (p.64) Example of the Eighth & part of the Ninth Procedures in Each Stage
  • From Stage Six: Release & Reimprinting this Stage (p.166) Example of the Tenth Procedure in Each Stage

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