http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/subconscious-mind-blog.html The Subconscious Mind Blog will keep you consciously aware of updates and additions to the Internet-of-the-Mind website. Subscribe here. en-us replace this text with keywords seperated by comma except none at the end Sat, 06 Mar 2010 14:14:27 GMT Sat, 06 Mar 2010 14:14:27 GMT internet-of-the-mind.com http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/my-zen-like-walks.html Lately in order to improve my overall heath, which I think has a lot to do with the way in which to help keep our minds healthy and responding in a positive Sat, 06 Mar 2010 14:14:24 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/holiday-time-happiness-or-horror-story.html NOTE from Don: My wife, Angie Carter, is a Certified Substance Abuse Counselor. She writes a column for the Jefferson City News Tribune each month and Wed, 03 Mar 2010 15:40:46 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/awakening-dream.html Awakening Dream On the hills and the valley's of our lives, I've wondered if the flat planes of the desert, would be just around the corner. Among Tue, 02 Mar 2010 00:27:30 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/fighting-with-the-subconscious-mind.html I have arguments with myself. I find I will wake up at 3 am and find a topic I am fearful of as clear as day in my mind. I know my subconscious mind is Sun, 28 Feb 2010 00:13:15 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/addiction-intervention.html Addiction Intervention may be the last, but also the most effective option for families concerned about a loved one. 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Tue, 23 Feb 2010 06:34:26 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/cause-low-self-esteem.html A lot of things can cause low self esteem, but the number one factor by far is negative child development experiences Tue, 23 Feb 2010 06:34:22 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/the-other-mother.html My 25 year old stepson is a meth user now for 7 years (that I know of) doesn't work, lives off people, has been jail at least 13 times. Husband says he's Sun, 21 Feb 2010 17:55:26 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/ashamed-struggling.html Hi there, I was once told I was enabling my husband to continue down a path of self destruction. I guess I understood at the time that I was an enabler Sat, 20 Feb 2010 23:18:15 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/want-to-do-things-differently.html For as long as I can remember I have believed that I was no good, stupid, hopeless, a failure. Stupid, I know. My father was a harsh disciplinarian who Mon, 15 Feb 2010 01:55:32 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/looking-at-the-past-changes-now-and-thus-the-future.html I just realized something very profound, I have been given an opportunity that many people never get in life and certainly one that my parents weren't Sat, 13 Feb 2010 00:40:55 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/quote-from-ingmar-bergman.html All of us collect fortunes when we are children. A fortune of colors, of lights, and darkness, of movement, of tensions. Some of us have the fantastic Mon, 08 Feb 2010 15:43:29 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/they-are-only-trading-cards-after-all.html THEY ARE ONLY TRADING CARDS, AFTERALL! I have another story for you, a silly story, a childish story, but one so real and so honest, I just have to tell Sun, 07 Feb 2010 23:37:02 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/perhaps-i-can-help-another.html There are those, too, who suffer from grave emotional and mental disorders. How many times I have heard this at AA? Now when I get called on to speak I Sun, 07 Feb 2010 23:34:38 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/total-abandonment.html The Iceberg Model of abandonment is fine for the situations described. Personally I found I could see no similarities between my experience and the model. Sun, 07 Feb 2010 23:32:27 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/abandonment-issues-over-exboyfriend.html I just broke up with a guy who I originally said I forgave for playing head games prior to us getting together. We had been together 2 1/2 years ago and Sat, 06 Feb 2010 21:34:55 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/wounds-of-the-inner-child.html I have always acknowledged that my codependency and ensuing addictions to most anything and everything began with pain, fear, and being traumatized in Sat, 06 Feb 2010 21:29:17 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/the-swan-lake-ballet-when-will-i-ever-dance.html No Guilt, No Blame, No Remorse! When I was a child, I was a gifted child. I won awards and accolades from my peers, my teachers and the society around Fri, 05 Feb 2010 07:31:24 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/finding-your-real-self-a-beginners-poem.html Springtime at the Meadowbrook FINDING YOUR REAL SELF ~ A beginner's poem Hi, it is me, I am here, right inside of you. We are friends, and I'm here Thu, 04 Feb 2010 19:45:28 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/childhood-development-of-codependency.html After being in a continual process of recovery for the past 14 years using therapy, books, and 12 step programs such as CoDA, A.A., & S.L.A.A. I still Thu, 04 Feb 2010 19:44:20 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/experimental-vocals.html I am finding that as an experimental vocalist that these Serenity Tapes, along with deep breathing allow me to sing, not words so much as sounds from the Wed, 03 Feb 2010 17:26:58 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/i-talk-and-i-talk-but-i-never-talk-about-it.html I'm a 55 yr old woman who recently began having panic attacks... If any of you have ever experienced a panic attack, you know how horrifying they can be! Mon, 01 Feb 2010 14:54:04 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/ending-the-cycle-of-abuse.html I have an adult son who has expressed that he has abandonment issues. His father and I broke up when he was very young and we were kept apart alot due Sun, 31 Jan 2010 21:05:51 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/just-listening.html I am new and just want to listen to begin with Sat, 30 Jan 2010 21:01:41 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/being-the-step-parent-of-a-spoiled-17-year-old.html My wife and I have been married since April, 2008. She has a son, now 17, still living at home with us. When we first talked about marriage we agreed we Fri, 29 Jan 2010 16:10:16 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/abandonment-issues.html Childhood abandonment issues (literally). Not wanting to place blame on anyone. More curious as to why it took me until almost 40 years old to start Fri, 29 Jan 2010 03:21:56 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/too-much.html I have a 28 year old son that I have been enabling... He has a serious addiction to cocaine, grass and prescription medications. His brother was Wed, 27 Jan 2010 21:11:45 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/the-iceberg-is-helping-me-help-others.html This is the story about how your website has helped me with teaching a class called Letting Go of Codependency to incarcerated women. I am a Mon, 18 Jan 2010 19:25:43 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/gestalt-therapy-doesnt-seem-to-be-enough-for-me.html I have a wonderful therapist and some of the Gestalt therapies have helped somewhat. However, in reading a self help book, recommended by my Sat, 16 Jan 2010 23:21:03 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/responsibility.html I waited and waited for years for people to treat me the way I thought I wanted to be treated. But, as soon as someone treated me 'good' I lost Sun, 10 Jan 2010 17:59:32 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/help-with-communication.html I need some advice. I know that I am an enabler. I have been for many years. However, after I got divorced, I swore - as many do - that I would be Fri, 08 Jan 2010 05:21:04 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/my-heart-is-breaking.html My 24 yr old son (stepson actually) brought in the new year with a car crash, dui, and dislocated hip. He had no insurance, was driving an Thu, 07 Jan 2010 18:43:03 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/am-i-enabling-my-room-mate.html We have a room mate who is dating a woman who I believe is not right for him (they are both codependent; he is a rescuer and she is the victim). Thu, 07 Jan 2010 00:06:36 GMT