http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/subconscious-mind-blog.html The Subconscious Mind Blog will keep you consciously aware of updates and additions to the Internet-of-the-Mind website. Subscribe here. en-us replace this text with keywords seperated by comma except none at the end Mon, 14 May 2012 18:07:14 GMT Mon, 14 May 2012 18:07:14 GMT internet-of-the-mind.com http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/enabling-my-mom-and-being-treating-terrible.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/enabling-my-mom-and-being-treating-terrible.html I am 43yrs. old and have been enabling my Mom for almost all my life- at least 30yrs. . My Mom has HIGH ANXIETY and depression. She has been thru alot Mon, 14 May 2012 18:07:10 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/joining.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/joining.html Are there a lot of people in the members area? I like what I am reading here but want to know if there are a lot of people here to receive and give support Mon, 14 May 2012 18:06:10 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/thoughts-comments-on-what-to-expecthow-to-deal-with-someone-with-abandonement-issues.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/thoughts-comments-on-what-to-expecthow-to-deal-with-someone-with-abandonement-issues.html I have recently been getting to know a guy better that was abandoned - his father left his mother, older sister and himself when he was very young. One Mon, 14 May 2012 18:04:38 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/adult-child-syndrome.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/adult-child-syndrome.html New eBook Thawing Adult Child Syndrome, by Don Carter, MSW, LCSW, is about identifying and recovering from the here-and-now symptoms of growing up in a less-than-nurturing family. Thu, 10 May 2012 03:51:26 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/new-to-this-site.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/new-to-this-site.html have heard bits and pieces of this book before in a therapy setting. but lost the contact of the group I was due to the problems I have. I can relate. Wed, 09 May 2012 03:50:02 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/agoraphobia.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/agoraphobia.html I was a middle child 'independent' and creative but the scapegoat so made myself scarce most of the time. I have been agoraphobic for a number of years Wed, 09 May 2012 03:49:05 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/im-so-proud-of-my-daughter.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/im-so-proud-of-my-daughter.html My adult daughter is going thru some serious emotional issues and has been told by a therapist she has abandonment issues. I am feeling extremely guilty Wed, 09 May 2012 03:48:15 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/am-i-enabling-my-daughter-to-fail.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/am-i-enabling-my-daughter-to-fail.html I am afraid my daughter is on a path to destruction and I don't know how to help her. I have spent too much time not talking to her about this because Wed, 09 May 2012 03:47:00 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/my-30-year-old-brother-is-an-addict-and-my-mother-is-an-enabler.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/my-30-year-old-brother-is-an-addict-and-my-mother-is-an-enabler.html He started smoking weed when he was an early teenager and now he's addicted to oxycodin and i think heroin too. 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I cried weekly and had Sun, 06 May 2012 01:13:03 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/over-40-years-and-less-than-ever.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/over-40-years-and-less-than-ever.html I am married for 41 years. My wife and I live like roommates rather than a couple. Over the last 30 years I have asked her to attend marriage counselling Fri, 04 May 2012 23:54:29 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/i-am-trying-to-understand-how-my-family-break-up-has-affected-me-in-my-adult-life-and-why.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/i-am-trying-to-understand-how-my-family-break-up-has-affected-me-in-my-adult-life-and-why.html My parents split when I was 12 years old. I was forced to remain with my father and to look after my then 5 year old brother. My father was a volatile Fri, 04 May 2012 23:53:32 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/brining-colors-to-lives.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/brining-colors-to-lives.html Bringing People to life is all about helping others who are not truly enjoying their life's experiences. i want to do just that Fri, 04 May 2012 23:52:29 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/the-way-to-run-a-longterm-relationship.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/the-way-to-run-a-longterm-relationship.html A relationship that has lasted for a longer time could be a marriage, a friendship or a family related friendship. Love is usually the main center of Fri, 04 May 2012 23:27:13 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/seeking-therapist.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/seeking-therapist.html I'm seeing some very strong threads from my husband's life, and the destructive impact it has on our relationship. Is there a way to find a local therapist/marriage Wed, 25 Apr 2012 04:26:06 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/burnt-out.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/burnt-out.html My wife and I have been married for 30 years and have 2 sons . 29 and my youngest is 24 .No problem with the older of the to, but, my 24 year old still Wed, 25 Apr 2012 04:25:22 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/looking-for-answers.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/looking-for-answers.html well, I will try to make a long story short: I grew up, I have always felt, in a healthy family situation, the youngest of a large family. We were all Tue, 24 Apr 2012 21:04:06 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/ready-for-a-change.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/ready-for-a-change.html Not sure how to do this. I am 28 years old and for the first time in my life I am actually feeling pain. 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I am an adult and don't have kids but have wondered why I have walked away from every job offer (my dream jobs included) Mon, 23 Apr 2012 07:15:32 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/enabling-husband.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/enabling-husband.html My husband of 22 years is addicted to prescription pain medication. we are getting ready to lose our house and everything else that we have worked hard Mon, 23 Apr 2012 07:14:29 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/the-hidden-gifts-of-the-subconscious-mind.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/the-hidden-gifts-of-the-subconscious-mind.html ...truly enjoyed reading and taking notes on this fantastic subject. I now feel an improved connection with my Subconscious Mind. You allowed me to access Fri, 06 Apr 2012 22:55:17 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/i-am-addicted-to-enabling.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/i-am-addicted-to-enabling.html I am a true addict of enabling, my enabling had destroyed my son, he has had issues with every substance since he was 14, he is now going to be 40 years Fri, 06 Apr 2012 22:53:53 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/need-to-stop-enabling.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/need-to-stop-enabling.html I am recently divorced and am living with my 19 year old daughter. My exhusband, though never diagnosed as an alcoholic, drank alot and was mostly absent Fri, 06 Apr 2012 22:53:13 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/i-have-abandonment-issues-am-a-parent-and-want-to-break-the-cycle.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/i-have-abandonment-issues-am-a-parent-and-want-to-break-the-cycle.html I don't remember much about my childhood except that I was always very independent. I stopped drinking out of a bottle on my own and asked my mom for Fri, 06 Apr 2012 22:52:42 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/all-messed-up-and-i-feel-completely-hopeless-and-helpless.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/all-messed-up-and-i-feel-completely-hopeless-and-helpless.html Where do I begin? I've have been messed up all my life. I've been suicidal since I was 13 and still very much think of it even to this very day at the Fri, 06 Apr 2012 22:51:19 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/i-want-to-show-my-love.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/i-want-to-show-my-love.html When I was seven, my dad died. After that my mother changed,became very volitile,distant and judgemental towards me (I am adopted). My brothers got special Fri, 06 Apr 2012 22:50:37 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/recovery-stories.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/recovery-stories.html Hi there: I'm interested in sharing success stories with other people. How we've overcome self-destructive patterns and how our lives are getting better. Fri, 06 Apr 2012 22:48:44 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/hypnosis-downloads.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/hypnosis-downloads.html Hypnosis Downloads Sat, 31 Mar 2012 18:32:04 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/really-could-use-some-helpful-insight-advice-and-prayer.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/really-could-use-some-helpful-insight-advice-and-prayer.html My girlfriend had some pretty traumatic abandonment issues early in her childhood where her twin brother died. She was left having to deal with feeling Mon, 26 Mar 2012 13:51:53 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/new-to-healing.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/new-to-healing.html I am new to recognizing and healing my abandonment issues because i just realized what was going on with me. I am 43 years old and have always struggled Sat, 24 Mar 2012 22:17:56 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/healing-from-abandonment.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/healing-from-abandonment.html I have just recently reconnected with a girl I accepted as a daughter when she was born and was the only dad she has ever known. I am now an alcoholic Sat, 24 Mar 2012 22:15:54 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/successful-failure.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/successful-failure.html Many people call me a successful, happy, and confident person. Most think I am very kind. Very few know of the inferno that lives in me, though it has Wed, 21 Mar 2012 03:09:10 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/once-you-give-it-a-name.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/once-you-give-it-a-name.html You're half way home. It is that uneasy feeling that you can't put into words that binds When you open yourself to the pain of discovery grieve the past Mon, 19 Mar 2012 05:52:07 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/enabling-dad.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/enabling-dad.html How do you help a 17 year old, whose father is an enabler Mon, 19 Mar 2012 05:50:14 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/10th-born-of-17-children.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/10th-born-of-17-children.html I have been struggling with family of origin issues for 20 yrs, started with a major depressive episode that landed me in the hospital for 14 days. needless Sun, 18 Mar 2012 01:18:20 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/always-been-this-way.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/always-been-this-way.html This is BS. When I was born I was either happy or angry never an in between. (that's what my mom says anyway). Well I have a dad who worked most of the Tue, 13 Mar 2012 03:21:47 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/free-hypnosis-programs.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/free-hypnosis-programs.html Free hypnosis programs at the Serenity Cafe' on Internet-of-the-Mind.com. Tue, 13 Mar 2012 00:40:50 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/weightloss-motivation.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/weightloss-motivation.html Weightloss motivation hypnosis programs online Sun, 11 Mar 2012 22:31:55 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/dysfunctional-codependent.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/dysfunctional-codependent.html My parents both left me with my grandparents when I was 5 and for the next 8 years I saw them periodically between jobs and other relationships. It wasn't Sun, 11 Mar 2012 17:06:44 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/expressing-the-results-of-enabling-behavior.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/expressing-the-results-of-enabling-behavior.html Painting is from the,Don't Bame the Messenger Collection The results I see from enabling behaviors are whether one is addicted or not we can enable people Sat, 10 Mar 2012 04:26:17 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/14-years-old.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/14-years-old.html My mom left when I was 14 years old which always led me to believe that I was old enough to handle it. I never thought that it affected me because I knew Sat, 10 Mar 2012 03:48:34 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/counseling_techniques.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/counseling_techniques.html My preferred counseling techniques are a blend of approaches suited to identifying and working directly with specific neural networks. Fri, 09 Mar 2012 17:39:05 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/serenity-series-mp3.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/serenity-series-mp3.html Serenity Series MP3 are available for download or direct shipping. Fri, 09 Mar 2012 05:08:08 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/codependent-internalizer-desperately-seeking-my-true-self.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/codependent-internalizer-desperately-seeking-my-true-self.html My father suffered depression/social anxiety AND was an alcoholic. My mother was totally committed to God, Husband and children, in that order. As a small Thu, 08 Mar 2012 05:44:49 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/expressarte.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/expressarte.html My life right now is basically coffee and a terrible melancholy Thu, 08 Mar 2012 01:22:52 GMT http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/late-bloomer-with-moderate-abandonment-issues.html http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/late-bloomer-with-moderate-abandonment-issues.html I felt connected with my mother when I was a little child, at around 10 years old and under. Once I hit my teens, I felt very neglected by both parents. Thu, 08 Mar 2012 01:22:34 GMT