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Thaw - Freedom from Frozen Feelings

New EBook Thaw, by Don Carter, MSW, LCSW, is about the emotional wounds of abandonment, shame, and contempt created by growing up in a dysfunctional family.

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Emotionally Abused

This is the 8th year of our marriage. I am quickly realizing that this was the biggest mistake I have ever made - getting married (maybe to this man).

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Joyful World

I know that underlying all this pain is a joyful world of celebration and love. Why does it keep disappearing? I feel alone. I am alone. I take care

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This is pointless!

What is the point of expressing oneself when there are no replies to our posts or any sort of help at all

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When Will it STOP!

Kinda nervous. :) I just turned 48,female, youngest(twin),6 of us all together, oldest 58. I can honestly say I think my family has cornered the market

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Finally admitting enabling adult daughter

After 3 years of caring for my daughter's children, having relocated, left job and used all savings, she found new man who is mean to her children. I told

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life is not fair, but as the cliche goes, "the show must go on"

So, I found this site as I have been recently trying very hard to understand all the inner critics that I deal with on-going, inside myself, and am so

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Thaw Makes Amazon Best Seller List!

After only nine weeks on Amazon, my Book Thaw - Freedom from Frozen Feelings is #28 on the Best Seller List for Codependency. Please write a review if you have already read the book. Thanks Everyone!

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Lost in the Crowd and the Family Dramas

I am exhausted - finally after 53 years totally exhausted by the family dysfunction, anger and dramas. I am one of 6 children, the only girl and the oldest.

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Concerned about newphews and neices daily cares, abuse, and emotional health

My brother is an addict and has mental illness. He is unable to take care of himself and is financially over $200,000 in debt and that is since he filed

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mad and sad

my husband just walked in with his 13 year old granddaughter,to my surprise. She towed a very large suitcase to my spare bedroom.Then walks his adopted

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I want to learn more about relationships

I am new in a relationship.we've been in it for some months now and things are going on well but we have lots of misunderstandings.Its been too much but

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2012 - The Year of Me

I am 64 years old. All of my life I have felt different, unloveable, isolated and lonely. I grew up an only child. My father and mother were the best

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My life in a concentration camp, only it was called home

My earliest memory was when I was 3 yrs. old. Seems hard to believe I can remember that far back.I think that may be why its so hard to move forward in

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Abandonment then and now

Gosh so many of us struggling to work it all out. In my case, an emotionally abusive childhood with a manipulative mother who desperately wanted to be

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