Son thrown out but now in council flat refuses to acknowledge any bills and may land up homeless
Our son (22 years old) has been thrown out of family home for lying, stealing, and getting into serious debt, and refusing to acknowledge his mess! i therefore leaving us to deal with phone calls letters, etc.
I helped him become rehoused in local council flat, and due to him being unemployed, many of his bills are paid for him at the moment, this will not always be the case!
We have tried continuously to get him to take responsibility for his debts, living costs etc, but he completely ignores all advice given! It seems unless he is taken by the hand, he sits back and does nothing!
We are moving overseas shortly and I refuse to continue giving him money to help when he wastes it on non essentials, ignoring important bills, like rent. He has been informed he will land up homeless again or worse if he continually ignores paying his rent. I am met with a blank stare!
How can I stop worrying and get on with my life as I should?