My husband enables my 24 year old stepson

My stepson is 24 years old and his life is a mess. His license keeps getting suspended for failure to pay traffic tickets and failure to pay auto insurance. My husband financially bails him out every six months. We really don't have the money to keep doing this.

Now my SS has been slapped with $30,000 in child support arrears and I'm worried that my husband will bankrupt us.

We have 2 small children, one with special needs and my husband pays a fraction of time, attention and money on the little kids that he does on his 27 and 24 year olds from a previous marriage.

Is there a support group for somebody in my position?

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