Jeanette and relationships
So how do we get our relationships restored? How do we accept parts of us that have been neglected and told are not good enough?
It's all so confusing trying to make a relationship work if the person we are attracted to will re-wound us because we are all trying to get back to the original wounding and somehow find healing. I have been fine for ages with my addictions as I have done some healing from several dysfunctional relationships, ( with church and self help groups like living waters)but now I'm ready to get married, but a bit freaked out that I will go and repeat all the same garbage from my codependency habits. How am I meant to be healed enough to attempt a healthy relationship and what are the tell tale signs that the guy is gonna hook me in and cause another repeat of my messy and imperfect childhood. Should people like me who have attempted relationships and failed- just stay single?
My new goal for counselling is to like myself and reclaim my true self- any tips?