I suspect my wife sleeps with her brother...

by Dejoule
(Kitwe)

i am 28 years old and my wife is 25 years old. we are married with a 5 months old daughter. i am keeping my wife's 22 years old brother who seems to be arrogant to me and never respect me. whenever i tell my wife about him, she always protects the brother.

At times i find them locked inside the house. When i knock and they open, they seem like they are from having sex. When i ask she always says they where all asleep in the same room. am told they used to share the same bed before i knew her (i.e 2 years ago) I cant understand this.

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Jun 28, 2017
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It's just doubt
by: Manohar

No brother and sister would do sex. So your doubt it unnecessary. You can ignore it and move on.

Sep 02, 2016
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My girlfriend having sex with her brother?
by: Anonymous

Hi, Long story short. It all began when I first met my girlfriend. She's a beautiful girl. Everything I look into in a woman. I love her with all of who I am. I tell her every single day. I truly do love her. But as i started to observe her a little more. I started to notice something strange. Her mom pretends to be her on the internet just to talk to guys and forced her to sleep in the same room from one of the guys her mom talks to. This happened before we met. So I understand it was the past. The thing that hurts me now, is that she shares the same bed with her little brother that's only 15. She is 20. We always sleep on the phone together at night. There are 3 nights that bothered me. One including from last night. So the first night I woke up in the middle of the night randomly. So I checked to see if we were still on the phone. Then I started listening in. I heard her talking to her brother moaning and saying that feels good. So I shouted on the phone saying. "HEY, WHAT ARE YOU DOING? I CAN HEAR YOU." I heard a scramble from movement. She said she was sleep talking. The second night I woke up randomly. Then I started listening in. I heard silence. But then I heard her sound as if she just had an orgasm but then it went to silence again. I didn't say a word. Now for the last night which was last night. I woke up in the middle of the night seeing that the call ended. So I called her back. She usually sounds very sleepy when I call her like this. When she first answered the phone I heard a background noise saying. "Put on your clothes." With heavy breathing and her voice sounded a little nervous but wide awake. Then i said are you sleeping with your brother in your bed? First thing she said was. " it's not what you think." She repeated it 3 times. She has 2 little brothers. One is 11 and the Other is 15. She said she was sleeping with the 11 year old. I think she was lying because the way she was speaking to me. Everytime she shares the bed with the 15 year old. It's constant moaning. She talks to him differently from her other family members. Now she is alone with him "moving funiture" I don't know what to believe anymore. I wish I could just love a woman with all of me and she would just love me back. All I can do is pray for a better future and ask for wisdom and strength from God through Jesus Christ. Thank you for reading my story. But it's still yet unsolved. Maybe I should leave now. Or stay and maybe catch them in the act one day in person. Goodbye...

Jul 11, 2016
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i am unsure
by: Anonymous

Like before i see all of you have your suspicions and i relate with most of yours my girlfriend seems to always want to be her brother even though she has two other siblings and always talks about him and defends him even though he is an arrogant twat, i am worried

Mar 01, 2016
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Yes she is sleeping with her brother,all of them
by: Anonymous

My wife and i have been married for 13 years,we went though some tuff time financially and she moved with her mom with our two boys until thing could get better.Upon visiting i noticed the my wife and here brother where behaving strangely.It's a long story but ill just give one incident that happened.One sunday morning as i was visiting,i was on the couch with my two boys watching tv while thy were upstairs so i decided to go change my pants.As i was coming up the stair,her brother bolt out the bathroom soaking wet with his penis erected,then got in his room and was peeping throug the door to see what i was going to do,then he close the door.I went in the room not thinking of anything strange,change my pants the went into the bathroom,guess who was in there,my wife.I asked her are you ok she said yes.If i had put 2 and 2 together at that time i would be sitting i jail right now.When i left the house,a few weeks after i go the full picture,it was God protecting me.I said to my wife i want to get a divorce and she said she is willing to do anything to prove that she is not doing anything,a lie detector test,she did and she failed even try to decive the examiner.So yes it is posible that she is sleeping with her brother.Google narcissist and codependent and see if it fits your story.And she is still denieing it and had all the excuse in the world why she failed

Aug 25, 2015
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I have the same suspicions abut my wife
by: Anonymous

Sorry dear. You may never find out the truth. I have lived with my wife for now 20 years and her brother has lived with us for 8 years while studying. My relatives who come to live with us are always found with fault and are made leave. We built a new home and this brother stepped there at all during construction. Time for shifting and my wife hesitated for six months giving numerous excuses. She never wanted to leave her brother behind though he is above 30 years and has completed university. Eventually we shifted leaving the brother at our old home which has now been turned into rentals. My wife still makes sure she goes to her brother and gives him money. My solution. I got saved (born again) and left everything to Jesus. I have since made myself believe its mere suspicion and lived on.

Jul 23, 2015
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This is wrong, she is married now, talk to her
by: Anonymous

I am a woman and will never sleep with my own brother on the same bed.IT is strange. Talk to her how you feel and explain to her that it is really offensive of her to sleep on same bed with her brother,even sharing a bed is wrong.how will she react if she finds that you slept with ur own sister on same bed? She will feel offended I guess.Explain to her that she is no longer young anymore and it must end now asap. If you fail talking to her ask an elder in your family to mediate because you will end up divorcing her.it is never too late to save ur marriage do it asap.

Dec 03, 2014
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Panties
by: Anonymous Two

I don't know if she's gone that far, but I've seen her showing her panties to him getting into our car! He reacted as you might imagine...

Aug 27, 2014
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feeling the same thing
by: Anonymous

i am feeling the same thing. i go out for office tour and my wife brother stay with her, i dont know how can i catch them red handed, i know there is something between them which i have to know before i divorce my wife

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