I need feedback on how to reach a friend lost in family dynamic

My beloved friend of 38 yrs has moved her daughter and family into her home. Unfortunately my friend, her daughter and son-in-law are caught up in the Drama Triangle.

I am brokenhearted watching the son-on-law use up my friends finances, mental health and physical health. Her daughter is very sick with Lupus and it's complications and husband won't have anything to do with it. This is very convenient for him because my friend, the mother, then takes care of her daughter. The daughter plays the victim over and over and no doubt the son in law thinks he is too. So they take turns playing the roles.

What can I do?

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