I am an enabler that has been abused and want to stop

by Debbie
(Naples Fl)

AGE 46 Mother of 2 sons.Their dad never had time for them so I stepped in and made up the love for them. I just left a 29 yr marriage and met the man of my prayers. He pointed out to me that I am an enabler, and I feel that's true. I have been working for over a year on how to reverse the damage. My 21 yr son is depressed, has anxiety and can not even begin to try to find a job. How do you help when you have to let go and step back at the same time? Facing problems with child support too? help someone.

My other son has health problems and needs $2000 to get his surgery and may lose his life to infection without the surgery. Man what is going on with this world when you are an American and can not get surgery. someone out there know what to do debbieann1964@gmail.com let me know thank you