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Feb 02, 2011
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Allow God To Heal You
by: cathy

Zane, I feel very badly that you had to go through all of that.I really think my husband has the same problem, he never knew his mother, only for a short while. He gets so angry at me and everything is "my fault." It's very hard to be married to him, really hard. But, I have found comfort in God, and he is helping me through this, believe me. If it wern't for God I would have left him already.I guess what I'm saying here is hang in there and may God help you through this!!

Mar 24, 2010
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To Zane
by: Kathleen D. Cone

Zane,

I want you to know that I read what you posted and want to think about how to respond to what you wrote before commenting more than to say, that it took me 55 years and the start of panic attacks to get my attention, so I think you are doing really good at recognizing that you are dealing with abandonment at such an early age as compared to me, that is!

I'll write more to you a bit later, but you can read a little of what I've been adding to this site if you click the BlogSpaces link and go to the entries I've submitted to "The internet of the mind" to know you are not alone in this existence we call life. And, wanting help is the first step to overcoming any challenge we face, at least that's what I'm learning.

We are in this world together, and iceburgs all floating in the same ocean, as Don might say!

I did speak to a psychologist on the phone shortly, (she was not in my insurance network) but she did say, in the long run you will overcome the problems you are facing, it is something you can really deal with... so have hope and we will talk more specifically about what you wrote soon!

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