My Sister is an Enabler Her son is a 28 year old crack addict. He has been doing this since he was sixteen. He was just thrown out of Salvation Army for using. He is back at home. He told my sister he had a terminal disease, although he didn't follow up on treatment. He was out two nights, but when he wakes us she will baby him, feed him and give him gas money. I live here as well, along with her husband. We see the pattern, but she is afraid that if she throws him out he will die. I am so upset, that I want to move. She won't listen. I love my sister, and she needs me. I am at a loss as what to do, because my sister keeps making excuses for him. Please help.