Enabling our 21 year old son to become a professional cyclist.
My son has always been the sporty type and he is really focused on becoming a professional cyclist. We are proud he has a focus and wants to follow his dreams. Sadly this has taken over life because of the support he needs both physically and financially. Our marriage is on the back burner because my husband for the last two years has forgotten he has a wife as well! I do go to some of the races and love to support but then I get behind with the running of the home. My family are very lazy with this side of things and all just do their own thing. My garden needs sorting and my home needs redecorating through out and now my furniture is so old its ripped and I feel ashamed. I tried to freshen up the bathroom to get rid of mould which I did but I need some help to get it off the silicone around the bath. My husband said he would do it but this is all what happens this one job along with many others may have to wait for years. I do not want a posh home but clean and tidy. There is constant unrest in my home and it has been a real battle for me to even have my own central heating on. My son would keep turning it off and say get another fleece when I had already got one on. He likes it cool to keep germ free and healthy for cycling I understand but I am freezing. So my husband would just put this down to petty things and this took some time to get support on even this. Its a constant daily battle and I am tired and now just recovering from shingles to add to this.