My wife and I have been married for 30 years and have 2 sons . 29 and my youngest is 24 .No problem with the older of the to, but, my 24 year old still lives at home and works full time , makes ok money, but he DRINKS.In the past four and a half years he has Totaled two cars . Thank god no one has been hurt.He didnt even get a ticket or a DUI . POlice werent informed of these accidents. He was so lucky ! He promised He had learned his lesson on drinking ,and drinking and driving. Well that promise lasted 2 weeks and he back to driving around drunk again. We just dont know what to do.He has never been in any trouble with the law. He really is a good guy ,but he needs to quit the bottle , and get straight.