52yr old husband has 23yr old female "friend"
I need an opinion...my husband and I are at an impasse. He met a woman who is 23 while on business. She is the bartender at the hotel where he stays for 2 weeks every quarter. She came from a lower income troubled home, and has taken a liking to my husband and what appears to be the great life he has. They text and call each other multiple times a day, and he hides this from me although he SWEARS that this is just a friendship and even fatherly relationship. This has been going on for 2 years. We had counseling about it once and the counselor told him it was inappropriate, and that he should stop communication with her other than to be cordial if he sees her. He AGREED, but never stopped. Now I've called him on it, and he thinks I"m being overly controlling and that I shouldn't be able to tell him who to be friends with. I'm a very successful person, and I truly am not jealous...I think it's creepy and embarrassing. This is just the short version....am I wrong? Is it normal to have a "secret" friendship where he talks to a 23 yr old about marriage and advice on raising his kids, etc??? PLEASE email me your opinion at email address deleted by moderator..THANK YOU!!!!!!
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