23 YR OLD ALCOHOLIC SON!! HELP

by MIKE
(DAYTON OHIO)

DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO WE HAVE A 23 YR OLD ALCOHOLIC SON WHO MOVED OUT AT 18 AGAINST OUR ADVICE AND HAS SINCE BECAME ADDICTED TO ALCOHOL. WE HAVE BEEN SUPPORTING HIM SINCE HE HAS MOVED WE HAVE PAID HIS WAY AND FOR 4 APARTMENTS. HE HAS DRAINED US FINANCIALLY , EMOTIONALLY, PHYSICALLY. HE HAS 2 KIDS WHO ARE IN CARE OF A FOSTER FAMILY BECAUSE HE AND HIS EX GIRLFRIEND CANNOT OR WILL NOT OR REFUSE TO TAKE CARE OF THEIR CHILDREN. HE HAS DRAINED US TO THE POINT OF BANKRUPTCY, WE TOOK HIM FOR A MEDICAL DETOX FROM ALCOHOL & DRUGS. BECAUSE HE COULD NOT STAY SOBER LONG ENOUGH TO GO TO A REHAB. FINALLY GOT HIM IN A REHAB HE WALKED OUT AFTER 8 DAYS AND IS FULL BLOWN DRINKING AND PILLS HE CALLS ALL HOURS OF THE NIGHT SENDS HIS FRIENDS TO MY DOOR 1 A:M TELLING THEM I WILL GIVE THEM MONEY ALL LIES ... HE CALLS AND USES GUILT TRIPS HE SHOWS UP WITH HIS SO CALLED DRUG ADDICT FRIENDS AND HE HAS BEEN TOLD NOT TO COME BACK TO OUR HOME. WE HAVE 2 SMALL CHILDREN AT HOME AND I AM AFRAID FOR MY CHILDREN HIS BEHAVIOR AND ADDICTION IS OUT OF CONTROL. WE ARE AT THE END OF THE ROAD . WE HAVE TRIED FOR 5 YEARS TO HELP BUT I THINK WE HAVE MADE THINGS WORSE WHAT CAN WE DO PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP!

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